Thursday, August 6, 2026

TBT Reprints from CJ's Whine and Cheeze

    In 2003, Ma had a stroke. Dad was her full time caregiver until he he had a car accident that totaled the car. So in 2006, I became their chauffeur among other jobs.

At the time, to deal with the stress of running two households and working, I kept a blog entitled CJ's Whine and Cheeze. Egged on by some friends who enjoyed the first read through, you'll see your part when it comes by.



Friday, November 23, 2007
Your Weeble is Showing

After the performance of the Shaolin Warrior Monks, we walked back to Park St. Station to catch the outbound subway.

As we descended the stairs, I breathed in the stale air. I’d been riding the Green Line since I was 7 years old and was taken with a wave of nostalgia. The stations have been cleaned up considerably. When I was younger the stale air had an underlying tang of beer, beer waste and by product and unwashed derelict. I sighed. Even without the pungency, entering the station felt like a homecoming.

We walked through the station took the stairs down to Park St. Under to the Red Line and then climbed another flight of stairs up to the Outbound side of the track.

The platform was crowded and I was surprised how many people, especially young people, were milling about waiting for the Outbound “D” train to Riverside.

My Young One was taken with the novelty of riding the subway and she looked up and down the track searching for the train. I reached a hand and pulled her behind the yellow caution line. As a youngster, I remembered stepping over the line with The Brother as he laid pennies on the track. We would watch with glee as the old green trolley cars would flatten the pennies into thin sheets of copper. With so many pennies laid end to end and stacked five high, it’s a wonder we didn’t derail any trains.

A blast of stale air, bright light from the tunnel, and a roar announced the arrival of the train. Even though the hour was late, the train was crowded. The doors whooshed open and we surged with the crowd like salmon swimming upstream. We moved to the back of the first car where it joins the second car. There were no seats available so I grabbed the hand hold on one of the seats. I poked the Young One to hold on. Himself was standing at the back of the first car and a glance behind him revealed all the seats in the second were filled too.

Sitting in a single seat facing me was a young man. He looked to be in his late teens or early twenties. “Excuse me,” he said. “Would you like to sit down?” he asked me.

I knew seats would be available after a few more stops so I declined. Then I caught sight of Himself hanging onto a hand hold and desperately trying not to laugh as the train lurched forward.

Now, I was perfectly happy thinking the young man was being polite and chivalrous. He couldn’t possibly have offered me his seat because he thought I was a old.

Himself pressed his lips in a tight line in an effort to stop them from curling into a smile. He quickly looked away from me and became engrossed in one of the advertisements across the aisle. His shoulders were shaking with suppressed mirth.
After several stops, the young man disembarked and other seats became available. The Young One and I sat in a double seat and Himself sat behind us. We swayed and lurched through the dark to the end of the line.

As we walked to the car, Himself started to laugh.

“He was just being polite!” I said sharply.

“He probably thought you were as old as his grandmother!”

“Shut up."

Wednesday, August 5, 2026

Adventures of the Poor, Little Boob

 This journal is about my journey with DCIS which began in January 2024. Ductal Carcinoma in Situ. A form of breast cancer. I didn't tell many people. Family, a handful of close friends. I didn't even tell my bosses at the museum where I teach. Somewhere along the line after much prodding and poking, I decided the My DCIS Journey was too boring so retitled the journal Adventures of the Poor, Little Boob.

The Poor, Little Boob has been cancer-free since June 0f 2024, and still has another year of taking hormone therapy and being monitored by an oncologist. My target date for ending the medication and this journey is June1, 2027



Biopsy Day. Himself dropped me off on his way to class. Teague was going to pick me up. 

The biopsy was an hour and a half long. The same machine that is used to do the mammograms was used to collect the biopsy samples. Instead of standing in front of the machine, the machine is tipped on it's side, and you are seated and rolled into the machine. I was numbed up pretty well so didn't feel much. A bit of pressure as the machine inserted a needle in a circular pattern collecting samples from the PLB. The hardest part was sitting still with my left arm draped in an awkward position around the machine. 

I couldn't hear much of the dialogue between the surgeon, his nurse, and the mammogram technician above the hum of the machine. It seemed to take decades, but finally I was released from the machine, bandaged, could get dressed, and sent home.

Teague was waiting for me. It was snowing a bit when we got outside of the building. She said the snow wasn't bad so we went to Owen O'Leary's an Irish pub for lunch. Then she took me home.

And a small plea, my friend and colleague, Andy Fish, found out he has cancer. His cousin has started a Go Fund Me. If you can help out, your kindness will be greatly appreciated. Even if you can't make a donation, consider sharing the link through your social media network. That helps out a lot, too. Thank you. https://gofund.me/87ec3148b

Tuesday, August 4, 2026

T Stands for Zucchini Bread

 

Zucchini from the garden is coming in fast and furious. I used the recipe my neighbor, Prissy, had given me decades ago to make zucchini bread. I think she would have been pleased with how it turned out. Dense, moist, and studded with raisins and walnuts.

Drop by hosts, Bleubeard and Elizabeth's blog to find out what the rest of the T Stands For gang is up to. If you want to play, include in your Tuesday post a beverage or container for a beverage. Don't forget to link your blog to Bleubeard and Elizabeth's page.

Monday, August 3, 2026

Monet and

 


Miro waiting for me to get back home after antibiotic allergy testing.

Sunday, August 2, 2026

How Does Your Garden Grow?

 

Short and sweet this week. A fairy circle of pink clover.


I caught the Goldfinch yellow-winged eating the petals of the sunflower.

How does your garden grow?

Friday, July 31, 2026

The Friday Five Good Things


 Five good things that happened this week.

1. The four of us celebrated The Young One's birthday

2. The Young One picked out the anime movie Flow for us to watch. It's right up there with Cats, The Blair Witch Project, and 2001 Space Odyssey. If you know, you know.

3. The Young One showed me how to play Inkulinati. We had lots of fun. Almost as much fun as when we played Little Big Planet

4. We delivered the Young One to TF Green Airport in Providence RI. Easy down and easy back via Rte295. So much easier than going to Logan Airport in Boston.

5. Back to weekly Skype sessions with the Young One.

How was your week?