Monday, December 23, 2019

How My Avocation Became My Vocation

On a Happy Mail post earlier this monthSandy asked how did I become interested in calligraphy?

As a kid I was always interested in handwriting and penmanship. I was looking forward to 4th grade when we would be allowed to use a dip pen and ink for penmanship. A neighbor, Mrs. Burns, and the dietitian of the parochial school I went to used to address Christmas cards in her beautiful hand with red or green ink. I wanted to be able to write like that, too.

However, in 1964 when I entered 4th grade, ballpoint pens became a hot item. No fuss, no muss, and I'm thinking cheap inexpensive. That year our school materials package included a blue, Lindy ballpoint pen. That became the writing instrument for all subjects except arithmetic. Color me disappointed that we wouldn't be using a dip pen, and ink from the inkwell in the desk. With Lindy in hand, I learned the Palmer Handwriting Method.

I loved penmanship classes, but the realization that I was left-handed and never going to win the penmanship medal prompted me to spend time changing my handwriting so it wouldn't look like the nuns. I watched how people wrote and if I saw a particular letter I liked, I tried to copy it, and make it my own. Lots of people complimented me on my handwriting.


In my second year of  college, after changing majors like other people change socks, I majored in English, specifically Medieval English Literature. In one of my classes, we were taken to the special collections department of the university library and shown  medieval manuscripts.  I thought the writing looked cool so began taking my notes in a rudimentary, monoline, calligraphy hand.


After I graduated college (1977), a friend gave me my first calligraphy book. I piddle around with it and used a Shaeffer calligraphy pen.

In 1993, my parents were celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary. Ma wanted me to address her invitations using gold ink and also to fill out the escort cards (what table you are assigned) at the reception. I got a lot of compliments. People began telling me I should address wedding invitations for a living. Since I had left my computer programming career behind to raise a family, running a business I could do from home seemed like a dream come true. I could be home with my girlies, and I could make millions. 😺

After hunting around for calligraphy classes, I was pointed to the Worcester Art Museum and I signed up for a 6 week calligraphy class with Gerry Jackson Kerdok. I thought the class would be a breeze. After all, people were telling me how good I was. I quickly learned that I had picked up a lot of bad habits and this class became the first of many.

I really have Gerry to thank for setting me on the path or giving me the calligraphy affliction. 😺 She encouraged me to join Masscribes, the Massachusetts and Rhode Island, calligraphy guild. Through the guild I was able to take classes and workshops with other master penman. When I asked Gerry if she thought I could address wedding invitations, she told me to go for it. Over the years, she has shared so many hints, tips, books, and took an interest in what I did. 

So even though I had played around with pen and ink, Gerry opened up a whole new world for me including teaching.  She showed me that calligraphy goes beyond invitations and there is so much to learn. History, tools, alphabets, techniques. And the learning never ends.

So how did you become interested in your vocation or avocation?

27 comments:

  1. That is a great story. Where did you go to college? And were you living near Worcester when you took your first class at the art museum? I drove by there Saturday going and coming from my mom's and I saw they have a great sounding photography exhibit. Have you seen it? I was always craftsy and got into scrapbooking when it emerged and my daughter was a little child. From there it was history as I more or less left scrapbooking behind and moved into more art. It is quite fulfilling to find something that moves you so much, isn't it? Happy almost Christmas. Hugs-Erika

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    1. I graduated from Boston University. Yes, I was living where I live now when I took my first class at the art museum. I haven’t seen the exhibit yet.

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  2. Good to know what pointed you to your goal. Ballpoint-pens were forbidden for us at school. Have a fun day, Valerie

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    1. I wish the nuns had forbidden ballpoint pens, but they saw them as convenient and not messy

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  3. Great post! I love hearing personal stories about friends. I always loved both handwriting and English too actually. When I was a kid, I was CONSTANTLY writing just for the sake of writing! LOL! It always fascinated me.

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    1. And fun to watch how others made their letters and to try to copy a cool Ml or some other letter.

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  4. Good morning, thank you for sharing this. I started reading in the books I bought-and my first thought was doing it wrong without a teacher-but at my age will just go for it now-lol my biggest thing right now is figuring out how to hold the pen at the right angle
    that is awesome you have the guild and classes near you-and really awesome you are making a career from it-

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    1. I was fortunate to have an excellent teacher who pointed me in the right direction.

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    2. CJ I am so unhappy with myself right now-I knew when I was posting the cards to my t post I was missing one and didn't remember til your comment-so sorry about that and I am sooo embarrassed right now-I had your card with my calligraphy books and pens in my craft room-I added it to my T post just now-I also sent you an email to thank you for your so lovely card when I received it I love it very much hugs

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    3. No worries, Kathy. You had told me you received it and would use it with your calligraphy books and things. That made my heart sing.

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  5. Beautiful story, CJ. Your calligraphy always makes me smile. I still keep the envelope you addresed when you sent me an ATC. Your handwriting is out of this world.

    Ironically, I was in my last year of undergrad school and needed 3 credit hours of some upper class elective in order to be eligible for four degrees. I decided to take statistics. People could not believe I would take it as an elective, rather than a requirement. I ended up teaching several students in my kitchen in Webb City, MO. My professor was so impressed, she suggested, since she knew I would get an engineering degree, I should go into Human Factors. Back then, few universities were teaching it, so I enrolled in the next best thing: Industrial, Organizational Psychology at a different university. Back then Missouri Southern had no graduate programs. Not sure if they do now, either.

    When you go to grad school, you are supposed to have undergrad classes primarily in your field of study. I had a total of SIX undergrad classes in Psych. 3 hours of Intro to Psych and the stats class. The Psych department didn't want to let me into the graduate program until I took more psych classes. I told them I already had 240 hours of undergrad classes (in MO, you needed 124 to graduate) and I wasn't about to take more undergrad classes. The head of the department said he would put me on probation for the first year and if I could pass the classes and get favorable comments from my instructors, he would consider releasing me from probation. You have to realize, I was going to night school and working 56 hours a week in a different town when I enrolled. Everything was SO easy, and of course I got straight "A"s the first semester. Even the instructors were impressed. The head of the department called me in at the end of the semester and told me he was also so impressed, he was taking me off probation. By taking summer classes and every night of the week classes, I was able to graduate in two years. They had a terminal Master's program, so I could go no further. Fortunately, Wichita State was just starting their Human Factors PhD program, and they actually wanted me. I only applied to one school, while some of the Master's grads had applied to as many as 30. I was the first to graduate from their (WSU) new program, too. And to think, it all started as a result of me needing one elective as an undergrad!

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  6. Interesting story! Thanks for sharing! :D

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  7. What a journey! I'm glad you found people who could nurture your talent and help direct your path :)

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    1. I am very grateful to Gerry and all the other instructors I have studied under

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  8. Thanks so much for your write up on how you got into calligraphy. Very interesting to read about. I've always loved beautiful lettered work and always wanted to try it but really didn't have the patience or the time when I was raising kids and working at home (medical transcription). Anyway I really enjoyed reading this. I really sat up and paid attention when you said Medieval English literature....sounds so interesting.! Hope you and your young one feel great by Christmas.

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    1. I can read 3 different dialects of Middle English. However, after graduation, not many people were impressed which is why I ended up going to Control Data Institute to get a certificate in Computer Programming and Operations. Though I loved Middle English Lit, I couldn’t get a job to feed myself 😺

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    2. wow, that's cool! I would have definitely been impressed.
      One of my favorite binges was the TV show "Reign" ..how I loved it! I am almost finished with "Outlander" - ...oh...what a great series .

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  9. oh... I had a career that wasn't all that interesting to me, i just fell into it by applying for a receptionist position at a medical office. My boss started to have me proofread reports and it evolved into me learning medical terminology and transcription - i could type fast back in the day . real fast and knowing I could do this job at home (we were called cottage workers back in the day)... I went on to do it for about 30 years - being able to be home and raise four guys and also help with finances. Back in the day we got paid per line so it was fairly good money and i could make my own hours ...sometimes because of necessity i did most of my work after the kids were in bed. I became my own boss and got my own accounts both hospital and private doctors and would go pick up tapes in the old days, transcribe them and return them back a few days later...at some point then i could access dictation over a certain type of telephone. but it was never a passion - i grew to hate it so much...ugh...i'm surprised i didn't become a hypochondriac.

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    1. That’s cool! In my senior year of high school and through college, I worked at the local hospital laboratory. I started as a receptionist, but became a float for whatever department needed help. One day, I was asked to transcribe a pathology report as the medical secretary was out sick. Everything was going fine until I the doctor after giving measurements for a lesion, remarked the skinny lips blah, blah, blah,. It just made no sense to me. Skinny lips. Skinny lips. I told the head secretary I was having problems with this one report. She listened to the tape and then burst out laughing. It wasn’t skinny lips, but the skin ellipse measures so many centimeters by so many centimeters

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    2. LOLOLOL ...that is hilarious. I use to get the worst dictators (doctors)..one would get all emotional when his dog wouldn't stop barking when he was dictating at home - and he would cry. He was a well known Orthopaedic surgeon For years I did mostly orthopedics (my own accounts) and then I worked for an agency who set me up to do ER reports which were much more interesting. I've often thought when I get too bored around here having so much time that I should look into transcription again and then I remember why I wanted to quit. I would rather be in the hotel industry cleaning hotel rooms than transcribing especially for doctors with foreign accents that I had a hard time understanding.

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    3. The head of pathology had a habit of telling jokes as he worked. So you’d be typing along about a tumor or something and then find yourself typing There was a young man from Nantucket...

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  10. What a great post and interesting story.
    Thank you for sharing it here.

    All the best Jan

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  11. That is so interesting CJ! Thank you for sharing your story with us! I think you know with me, I started to create my crows, after I almost died. Big Hugs!

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    1. And we’re so glad you’re still creating your crows.

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